To judge or not to judge, that is A question.

Well, *The* question was to Be or not to Be, but among the most important questions that some of us have to face in a life time is do we judge or do we not judge the other ? mostly in our society we tend to judge, even if we try to look liberal, I know that. And some don't ever stop for a moment to ask themselves the previous question at all.
I think maybe I was judgmntal by heredity during my teens, but some time after that, for whatever reason, maybe the evolving of my real personality, I developed a habit of bieng un-judgmental to some extent. Maybe I apply the "he who is without sin let cast the first stone" or maybe I believe that the final destination is the most important part of the journey, we can get lost in the maze for a while but if we find the correct path, then ... all is well that ends well.
I never really realized that charactaristic in me till a couple of years ago. I do have my rights, my worngs and my red-lines-not-to-be-crossed, Still I developed this habit where I caluculate the equation first before I give my ... answer, so that I'm not being judgmental in a blind manner. I have to have a Reason.
That explained to me why, during the past 10 years, did I accept some scenarios from some people I met though I never accepted the same scenarios from some other people, a little change in the equation made all the difference.
And that was easy... till I had to face the question again, but with myself as a part of the equation!.
If I decide not to judge, then I'll just drop the case.Leave the equation unsolved, hoping it's not a critical one, with whatever hazards to that.
If I decide to judge, then I'll have to be a prosecutor, a juror and a judge, plus, the accuser. And that's why this question poped up in the first place.
Can I do that?, can I be this .... well, heavenly creature !?. A creature who ,as a prosecutor, will get all the answers to all the questions, and, as a juror and a judge, won't be biased to the accuser or against the defendant.
That's my argument, frail and fragile, simple and confusing ... ... ...
I rest my case!.