واحدة تظهر فجأة بعد 10-11 سنة بدون اى علاقات من اى نوع لأننا أصلا كنا زملاء وبس علشان تعكس عليا مشاكلها وتحاول تقنعنى ان حالتى الصحية هى نتيجة حالة نفسية بسبب حالتى الإجتماعية !! وانها كمان تعبت لنفس السبب - بس هى ماكانتش واخدة بالها .. يبقى انا كمان مش واخدة بالي- بس هو ده السبب ... هى عارفة ( وده كفاية) !!ـ
و بعدين تحاول تقنعنى بعدها ان اهم حاجة اننا نحمد ربنا على اللى احنا فيه و انهم 24 قيرط موزعين بالعدل
... يا سلاااام
من ضمن آفاتنا كمان الإفتراض .. الكل بيفترض انه *حدق* و بيفهمها وهى طايرة .. مع انهم اصلا و لا بيفهموا ولا بيميزوا وكل اللى بيعملوه انهم بيطبقوا كليشيهات فاشلة منقولة من ايام جدة جدتى..لأن جدتى كانت متقدمة أصلا عن الموجود النهاردة . مهما حاولوا يقنعوا نفسهم بالعكس
العقل فعلا عضو ضامر فى مجتمعنا
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ولسه .. غالبا هاعمل تاج اسمها كليشيهات .. فى الفترة الجاية انا متوقعة حاجات كثير
2 comments:
unfortunately, we've to deal with these situations. Sometimes such comments come from people close to you like relatives who have good intentions but they accidentally hurt you :-(
I had one of these situations last week in Eid :((((
There is nothing we can do I guess. Marriage is one of the society taboos ... people can not understand why others stay single although I haven't seen many happy couples out there.
I am not against marriage but against bad choices and I hate to spend my precious life surviving a bad marriage just because everyone wanted me to do so.
Meshmesha , It's not a matter of hurt , really I don't care and certainly I dont' care how's saying it out of love and who says it out of "hutring u". In fact I just smile in sarcasm, and poor people , they get me wrong as approving what they say :D I just hated what she was implying as if she KNOWS IT ALL , and hated the sterotyping and hated her coming out of blue just to bond after all those years while we were never friends at any given time frame !!!
"Better to reign in Hell than serve in Heaven" , I don't believe in that, just like u.
my choice is not anybody else's problem.
sorry for not publishing ur exact comment:)
thanx
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